How Madonna and Elton John Finally Ended Their Iconic Feud

Elton John's 2 Words That Brought Madonna to Tears

By Della Grant • Aug 06, 2025

The photo said it all — two of music's most legendary icons, arms around each other, decades of bad blood melting away in a single Instagram post. After more than 20 years of public jabs, career digs, and headline-grabbing insults, Madonna and Elton John finally buried the hatchet. But how did this icy feud start? And what did it take for these titans of pop to call a truce?

The Friendship That Never Quite Took Off

Back in the '90s, it seemed like Madonna and Elton John might just become the ultimate celebrity power duo. They shared a glamorous moment at the 1995 BRIT Awards, posed with Donatella Versace in 1997, and even performed a duet at Carnegie Hall in 1998.

But by the early 2000s, their bond unraveled faster than a couture gown on a windy red carpet.

When the Gloves Came Off

It all started with a single song — Madonna's Bond theme for "Die Another Day."

Elton didn't just dislike it. He publicly declared it "the worst Bond tune ever" and slammed it for having no melody, as reported by PEOPLE. He reportedly told the press the franchise should've stuck with icons like Shirley Bassey or Lulu — and maybe even hinted that he belonged in that league.

The press had a field day. And Madonna? She kept it cool — at least in public.

The Infamous Q Awards Meltdown

Things went nuclear when Elton took the stage at the 2004 Q Awards to accept his Classic Songwriter honor. Rather than a humble speech, he let loose on Madonna, mocking her nomination for Best Live Act.

"Since when has lip-syncing been live?" he asked the stunned crowd, according to PEOPLE, adding that anyone who fakes it on stage "should be shot." The media couldn't get enough, and the feud officially became headline gold.

2012: Golden Globes and the Final Blow

By 2012, things had gotten personal. Elton reportedly dismissed Madonna's chances of winning a Golden Globe — and then she won anyway. As if that wasn't enough, he later called her a "nightmare" on Australian TV and mocked her appearance, saying "she looks like a f------ fairground stripper" and had been cruel to his close friend, Lady Gaga, as reported by PEOPLE.

It seemed like the feud had officially crossed the point of no return.

A Bit of Regret, But No Reconciliation

In his 2019 memoir "Me," Elton admitted he might have gone too far. He confessed he hadn't expected some of his cruelest comments to reach the public, adding, "still, I shouldn't have said it ... I apologized," as reported by PEOPLE.

But, even with that admission, the two remained frosty — until one unforgettable night in 2025 changed everything.

The Moment Everything Changed

When Elton performed on "Saturday Night Live" with Brandi Carlile in early 2025, Madonna did something no one expected. She showed up.

Madonna later revealed on Instagram that watching him perform reminded her of sneaking out as a teenager to see him live in Detroit — a night that changed her life. Despite years of hurt, she decided to confront him backstage.

And then came the shocker.

Elton's first words were simple but powerful: "Forgive me," according to PEOPLE. And just like that, years of bitterness melted away.

Could a Musical Collaboration Be Next?

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This wasn't just a photo-op reunion. Elton reportedly told Madonna he had written a song for her and wanted to collaborate. If that happens, it could be the most iconic pop partnership of the decade — two living legends turning decades of drama into music history.

Whether or not that collaboration materializes, one thing is certain: in a world that loves a feud, nothing is more powerful — or more surprising — than forgiveness.

References: The History of Madonna and Elton John's Decades-Long Feud — Before They 'Buried the Hatchet' in 2025 | Madonna and Elton John Make Peace After Decades-Long Strained Relationship

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